For much of 2020, there has been talk of ‘the new normal’ and ‘when we get back to normal’, but these terms can cause anxiety in themselves, so a better approach can be to live in the
‘now’. Learning to be more present in the ‘now’ and exploring
mindfulness can be a genuine help.
Did we set ourselves unrealistic goals for lockdown? Did we create unnecessary pressure and stress for ourselves? While lockdown can be a good time for personal growth, such as learning something new (whether an instrument, production tool or technique), it’s important to set
achievable targets so you can monitor progress and there’s a chance to reward yourself for each step forward. Be kind to yourself.
Those who already experience anxiety, depression and stress in their lives may feel overwhelmed with the avalanche of information from media and beyond. Even if you don’t usually experience any form of mental unease, it might be something you begin to feel due to the lack of control that we’re all experiencing right now and the inability to make concrete plans for the future.
Lack of control can make us feel like we have failed in some way, so it’s important to accept that we
cannot control everything that is happening around us.
It’s essential that we:
• recognise that
we aren’t alone – everyone is experiencing unease of some form
•
talk about how we feel – to friends and family, and seek support and therapy if things get too much
• create a plan and
routine for each day, so there is some structure and purpose: set yourself small goals
•
take breaks (if we’re able to work from home) and limit screen time
•
step outside and exercise or try a relaxation technique
• find time to
switch off and limit our exposure to news and social media, rather than endlessly tracking it
• look after our health by taking time to
eat well and ensure
good sleep• make time for something we enjoy or try a
new creative outlet such as drawing or writing
With this in mind, Record Union have launched
The Wellness Starter Pack which is an online mental health resources kit for musicians
https://thewellnessstarterpack.com/. The pack was created by a group of experts to help musicians maintain positive mental health and wellbeing. One frequent question that people are asking is ‘how do we gain control?’. We are unable to control the world around us and even control our own movements outside of the home. However, we are in control of what we do within the home and can attempt to focus on our own self-care and the importance of it. Self-care strategies are pivotal during this time as they give us routine and structure.